Tuesday, November 12, 2024

The Leake's Week-November 11, 2024

 Hello!


Here's a rundown of our week.  

Poor Gretchen started coming down with a cold last weekend.  She held strong until Sunday night, but then it finally hit her in full-force.  She stayed home from school Monday and Tuesday.  She went to school Wednesday, but we had her miss music and most of dance that day.   It's been a long time since she has had that bad of a cold, but she is doing much better now, just a lingering cough.  Thankfully, the rest of us have managed to avoid it, which I find completely surprising!  So that was Gretchen's Monday.  I did volunteer at the Charger Store that day, so sweet Grizz was left with the TV and a phone!  But, she did great, and as always, I loved my time at the junior high.  The fire alarm actually went off just as first lunch was starting.  Bless those junior high teachers who had to oversee half the student body who was at lunch and so felt they had freedom to roam anywhere.  Ha!  That evening, Rachel went to dance and Bridget was at the farm.  Marshall also went on his birthday outing with my parents-a seafood dinner at Sizzler  He loved it.  :)  Something we never treat him to.  :)  




Richard had work off on Tuesday.  Yay!  Always our favorite days.  He went to the temple that morning, and then ran some errands for me while I was at PT.  Big step of progres for me there.  I put a shoe on my left foot and walked (at the slowest possible pace with a physical therapist right by me the entire time) on the treadmill for eight minutes!  EIGHT minutes!  It was painful, but not terrible, and my ankle felt better the longer I walked.  I was holding onto the treadmill with two hands and the therapist was giving me a lot of corrections, which I did find very helpful.  Nothing like learning to walk again at age 41 to bring lots of humility into your life.  :)  But, all that aside, I was very grateful for that big step, figuratively and literally!  My wonderful Mom also came over on Tuesday and helped with a lot.  She wiped out the linen cabinet in our bathroom, swept and mopped the living room floor, unboxed lots of books and pictures, and helped Richard get our living room rug down.  Huge progress!  And I LOVE the rug.  One funny thing, as my Mom and Richard were working on the rug, they had to rotate it 180 degrees, and as they were problem solving that, my Mom said, "Well, there's more than one way to skin a cat."  She immediately caught herself and realized she shouldn't have said that with Gretchen right there, because Gretchen still is obsessed with cats!  Haha!  But, we thought nothing of it and all moved on.  Later that afternoon, I was sitting on the rug and asked Gretchen if she liked it, she immediately replied, "No!  You heard Grandma!  It's made of cat fur!"  Ahhh!  It gave me a great laugh, and now we are all trying to reassure Gretchen the rug is not made of cat fur.  :)  Rachel had dance that evening and was gone all night, but the rest of us were pretty glued to CNN's election coverage.  What a night.  Thankfully, most of us could sleep in on Wednesday.  We forced Bridget to bed at 11:00 and Richard, Marshall and I all went to bed at midnight.  




Richard had Wednesday off too.  Praise the heavens!  But, he did have to spend a good chunk of his morning at the dentist.  While he was gone, our appliance guy came back and finally finished installing the microwave and putting the trim around it.  Looks great!  The elementary school had early out Wednesday-Friday, so as soon as the appliance guy was gone, I ran down to the school and met Rachel and Gretchen at the book fair.  Always a highlight of the school year.  They each left with some new books that they promptly started reading as soon as we got home.  We were able to have a chill afternoon.  Richard spent a lot of time up in the loft during his days off of work unpacking and sorting and organizing things that go up there.  That night B and I went to YW's, Rachel had piano, and Gretchen went to a short time of dance.  

Thursday Richard was back to work.  I met my friend, Mary, for breakfast.  We have been friends since 5th grade, and it was so good to see her.  We had a great breakfast and then I went straight to physical therapy.  This time I walked on the treadmill only holding on with one hand!  I hate to admit how sore these treadmill walks have made my legs...both of them!  Happy and a little discouraging all at the same time!  After school, it was parent teacher conferences for Rachel and Gretchen.  They both got rave reviews from their teachers.  Their grades are great, hitting all their benchmarks, and excelling all around.  Very grateful for that.  Our evening was a busy one.  Piano for Bridget, dance for Rachel, RS activity for me, and haircut and chaperone meeting for Richard-but we pulled it all off!  Richard is going to be a chaperone on the cross country trip to California in December.  He is excited, but also after the meeting, maybe a little nervous!  Haha!  Marshall also did not want him to go, but he seems to be warming to the idea of having his Dad tag along!  And speaking of Marshall, his return to running has not been as smooth as we had hoped!  But, he ended this last week without pain, so we are keeping our fingers crossed for today!  

Friday!  Always a good day.  Rachel went to school early to help clean up the book fair with the student council.  I had a PTA meeting at the school that afternoon and finished just as the bell rang.  The girls and I ran to Target for a major haul of birthday gifts, pants, and home things.  They were great little shoppers.  Rachel went to Ellie's birthday party that evening and had the best time.  The rest of the kids were home and I actually made a real dinner, a huge rarity for two reasons.  One, I hardly do that anymore, and two, it was a Friday night!  Rachel was home a little before 8:30 and we decorated the living room Christmas tree!  It was the best.  I sat on the couch with my leg up and just took it all in as the kids decorated and Richard helped.  I did not want to leave that room when it was all done.  Between the piano, the tree, the new rug, Christmas pillows on the couch, it was so peaceful and beautiful and made me so happy.  This is the ONLY corner of our house that is fully put together, which makes me appreciate it even more!  I can only hope that in just a few weeks the rest of the house will be put together.  :)  After all of that, we watched funny instagram reels before calling it a night.  




Saturday was a busy day.  We managed to squeeze in a breakfast with most of us, and then Bridget was off to the farm.  Richard got a couple of things done around the house and then he left for work.  Richard usually works from home on the weekends, but because he was going to the BYU game that night, he decided to work at LDS Hospital that day.  The kids and I spent the day at home attempting to get jobs done.  :)  My Dad did come over that afternoon and helped me organize the cupboards in the laundry room.  While this seems like a small task, to me it wasn't, and I sure appreciated his help finding all that stuff in the garage, wiping it down, and getting it in the house.  Feels so great to have one more thing done.  Shortly after my Dad left, Marshall's cute date, Camille, came to pick him up for the Sadie Hawkins dance.  :)  It was fun to see them off.  That evening, Rachel went to yet another birthday party.  Bridget and Gretchen had Cambria and Naomi over and they played the night away while watching the BYU game.  As for me, my wonderful and dear friend, Shannon came over.  She brought dinner from Beaumont Bakery and we ate and talked and then watched the last episode of our current favorite Korean Drama!  Hospital Playlist!  It was such a fun evening.  Loved every minute of it.  Shannon left about 9:00, the girls' friends left at 10:30, right around the time Rachel got home.  Gretchen was beat and went straight to bed, but the rest of us stayed up to watch that very intense ending to the BYU-Utah game!  Wow!  Richard, obviously, was so happy he was there.  He and Ricky had fantastic seats and had a great view of that beautiful field goal to end the game.  Obviously they stayed to celebrate and got to give a bunch of BYU players high fives as they walked by.  What a great night!  At home, there was just as big of a celebration.  Rachel was a riot to watch in the final minutes of that game.  You may have seen a video Richard posted of her on social media.  Pure celebration from that Rachel Louise.  Such a fun night.  Ah!  I can't forget Marshall, though I have gotten minimal details from him about his date.  But, I do know that after Camille picked him up they went to someone's house and made homemade pizzas and then while the pizzas cooked they took pictures in the backyard.  After dinner they played games, one of which was Spoons-the game of my high school years!  After that, they went to the dance, there were zero slow dances, which made Marshall so happy.  After the dance they went to a house and watched the last hour of the BYU game and managed to all still stay friends even though some were cheering for different teams! Haha!  So much excitement, and also so much exhaustion on Sunday for all of us.  :)







Richard went to bed at 2:00 am and got up at 5:20 am for bishopric meeting, ward council, church, and then started working at 11:00 am.  My afternoon was filled with young women meetings.  After all of that, the girls and I went to Toney FHE.  Richard was still working and Marshall was exhausted and trying to finish homework.  The girls and I had a great time with family.  We got home just after 7:00 and enjoyed time at home with the six of us.  

That's it!  Thanks for reading.  :)  Love each of you!

Richard, Jenny, Marshall, Bridget, Rachel, and Gretchen :)

P.S. I am attaching a few pictures from last week.  Gretchen asleep on the floor at stake conference.  And Halloween pictures of Rachel, taken by her friend's wonderful mom.  Bless her.  






Sunday, November 3, 2024

The Leake's Week-November 3, 2024

 Hello!


I can hardly believe we are into November.  Time flies.  What a year 2024 has been, and it is far from over!  We were real lame for Halloween this year.  The girls pulled out a handful of decorations, we didn't buy a single pumpkin, and the only picture we took on Halloween was one of Marshall.  Winning!  Sigh.  However, we are all eagerly looking forward to Christmas and I have a feeling Christmas decorations will start making their appearance soon.  We all need some extra light and joy around here and I think putting up a couple of Christmas trees will be very helpful!  Okay, onto our week...

Monday was a pretty straightforward day.  School for all the kids, work for Richard, physical therapy for me!  Rachel did get to have a Halloween party Monday morning for student council and had a blast.  For a game, she was wrapped in toilet paper and the picture from the student council advisor seriously made my morning.  Darling and joyful Rachel Louise.  Marshall bumped his running up to 1.5 miles on Monday and reported he felt good.  After school, Rachel and Grizz had dance and Bridget had the farm.  The Garlicks are in the process of drying out all the goats, so milking is getting quicker and quicker.  The girls should have a stretch of 3-ish months with no milking, that will be a welcome relief for everyone!  Everyone was home by 8:00 on Monday evening and it honestly just felt so nice to have everyone home together for a bit before heading to bed.




Richard did not have work on Tuesday, which was so lovely.  Between Richard and my Mom coming by, lots got done around the house.  I am so thankful for each bit of progress!  The plumber came Tuesday evening and finished all the plumbing in our master bathroom-hooray!  Rachel and Gretchen had dance that evening, so it was just Richard and me and the oldest two kids for dinner and a good chunk of the night.  It was fun to sit at the table and eat dinner with them and talk about a wide range of topics.  Time is fleeting, and all the kids seem to be growing up too quickly!




Wednesday was a big day.  Richard was back at work, and I was back to physical therapy.  At therapy, I got the green light to bump down to just using one crutch!  Huge milestone for me!  The state cross country meet was that afternoon, so Marshall went with the team to cheer them on.  The boys team took 2nd (just like last year) and the girls team took 4th (improvement from last year).  Not 100% the finishes they were wanting, but still great.  Even though this cross country season has looked very different for Marshall, I am very grateful for exceptional coaches, great teammates and the experiences he has still been able to have this fall with the team.  And speaking of Marshall, he played some soccer at the meet and did some walking and running and reported a sore leg when he got back on the bus.  It is a challenge to figure out if this is muscle pain that is good, or bone pain, which is not good!  Ahhh!!!  Anyway, Marshall and the team got back to the school just before 6:00, he quickly grabbed some dinner, changed his clothes and got ready for his band concert at 7:00.  Richard and I were able to make the band concert and had a great time.  Once again, just blows my mind we have a child in high school.  There are several kids in our ward in the high school bands, so it was fun to see them too and talk with their families.  Bridget had horseback riding that afternoon and then YW's that evening.  She brought home a beautiful fall flower arrangement that is still looking great on our kitchen island.  Rachel had piano and then got to chill and relax the rest of the night.  Gretchen had music class and dance.  And between Richard, me, and my Mom, we got everyone where they needed to be.  And thank goodness Marshall can drive himself around!  




Oh, and for house stuff, our new range was delivered Wednesday afternoon.  Not broken!  The delivery guys were so kind and brought it into the kitchen, unwrapped it, and put the legs on it.  After they left, I went over to look at it and started to panic that it was not going to slide into its spot.  Duncan was here and grabbed his tape measure.  The range is exactly 36" and the opening for the range between the cabinets and counters is 36 and 3/16".  Oh man, I was on pins and needles until that was installed and officially slid into place the next day.   Also on Wednesday, we passed the final inspection and the broken range was picked up and taken away.  Slowly reclaiming the garage!  

Thursday, Halloween.  Richard, very thankfully, had the day off again!  Historically, I have not loved Halloween, but I have liked it more the last handful of years, but not this year.  I found myself in quite a grumpy mood that day for a huge variety of reasons, I think.  Gretchen was also in a grumpy mood that morning-yikes!  Richard was able to get the girls to school and then he went up to the temple to do an endowment session, went to Murray to pick up his license plates, and then stopped at Costco on his way home.  Bless him.  I took a nap, got ready, let the appliance installer in, and then shut myself in the family room watching a K-drama to get my mind off of the range installation.  By 1:15, Richard was home, my K-drama was done, the range was in, and my Mom arrived to keep getting some things done.  I chatted with both Richard and my Mom for a few minutes, made a quick lunch, and then ran down to the elementary school to help with Rachel's class party.  I walked into Rachel's classroom (in a sweatshirt) and I kid you not, it had to be 80-85 degrees in there.  By the time all of us moms had finished setting up, we were all in a full sweat.  Thankfully, the game I was helping with took place in the hallway, so me and the other mom 100% lucked out there.  The whole party was Harry Potter themed and those crazy 6th graders had a blast.  And despite my bad mood, I had a lot of fun helping with a broom game.  After I got home with Rachel and Gretchen it was a mad dash to get the girls ready to go, hence not a single picture of them.  I had to curl Bridget's hair (she and Cambria went as the Shining Twins, and no, she has not seen the movie).  I had to wave Rachel's hair (she and her friends divvied up the Taylor Swift eras and Rachel was reputation).  And cute Gretchen was supposed to have a wig and face paint, but within minutes she decided no wig and just one heart on her cheek which she insisted she do all by herself!  Haha!  Grizz was Bridget from the new Descendants 4 movie.  :)  




So, quick recap on all the kids' Halloween nights:

Marshall went to a Halloween party, dressed as a BYU football player, in almost 100% authentic apparel.  They had dinner, did reverse trick-or-treating, and played games.  He had a blast.  





Bridget trick-or-treated in Cambria's neighborhood and reported 208 pieces of candy, weighing in at 10 lbs.  Bridget slept at Cambria's that night and when I picked her up Friday late morning, she said her candy haul now only weighed 7 lbs.  Yikes!

Rachel met up with all her friends at Maisy's house for dinner and pictures, then they got rides to Ellie's neighborhood, and proceeded to trick-or-treat all over Farmington.  They ended the night back at Ellie's for candy sorting and a movie.  

Gretchen and two of her friends went trick-or-treating in Farmington for a pretty short time before they decided they were done and then they came here for a night of playing and half watching Hocus Pocus as they continued to run around and play.  

Richard passed out candy at our house, per the usual, we did not get many trick-or-treaters (we have decided that living at the top of a hill dissuades many!)  I got all our girls where they needed to be and then drove Rachel and some of her friends from dinner to Ellie's house and then I went and picked up In-N-Out for Richard and me!  A Halloween night unlike any other for me.  

Thankfully, the kids did not have school on Friday (the best calendaring thing the Davis School District has ever done-no school the day after Halloween, no matter what day it falls on!)  Richard did work, but the kids and I all got to sleep in.  The kids were awesome on Friday.  I told them they all needed to help with Ziggy, finish their zones, and then give me 30ish minutes of their time to help with other house projects.  And they all did!  Ziggy got two walks that day.  My Dad came over to keep cleaning up our storage room, so between him and Bridget's help that afternoon (and hours from my Mom throughout the week), that room, which took a major beating during the remodel, is now 100% cleaned up and put back together.  We got more organized in the kitchen, and Marshall helped cut back flowers in the front flower bed for winter.  After all of that was done, they spent the rest of the day playing.  Marshall went to a church with friends to play games, went to the Viewmont football game, and then back to a house for more games.  Bridget and Grizz had Cambria and Naomi over for the afternoon and evening.  And Rachel went to Beckham's house with a whole group of kids.  A productive and fun day off of school for all of them.  




Saturday 5 out of 6 of us were up early.  Bridget was the only lucky soul who got to sleep in, which being Bridget, she 100% capitalized on!  Ha!  Marshall was at the high school by 7:15 am to catch the bus to go to Spanish Fork for the JV cross country state meet.  I was out the door at 7:40 with Rachel to take her and her friend to the dance studio's dance intensive for the morning.  And then I was back out the door with Grizz at 8:40 to take her and her friend to the same place.  The girls danced all morning and then Richard and I got to go see them perform all the combos they had spent the morning learning:  hip-hop, jazz and contemporary.  They had a fun morning dancing, and we had a fun time watching!  Marshall had a fun time cheering for Viewmont, who took first in the state, for boys and girls, 5A cross country.  He got home about 1:30 and slept for the rest of the afternoon.  :)  Yesterday evening, Richard and I left for an actual date for the first time in a LONG time.  We went to dinner at Twigs, made a couple of stops at Farmington Station, and then went to the adult meeting of stake conference.  :)  It was SO great to sit and eat good food and talk without any kids around.  Something we very much needed.  When we got home, we put Rachel and Gretchen to work to help us vacuum and mop the family room floor because the rug we ordered had been delivered!  They were great helpers and we were able to get the rug down last night.  We love it.  It is so soft and the colors are great, and Richard and I are very happy with our choice!  Things continue to slowly come together over here.  

Today we have stake conference at 2:00 pm, so combine that and Daylight Savings Time, and we are pretty happy campers over here since we are currently in the 9:00 church slot!  It should be a very relaxing Sunday, which is something I think we all need.  

Love each of you.

Richard, Jenny, Marshall, Bridget, Rachel, and Gretchen