Friday, December 31, 2010

Christmas Day

Well, let's be honest, this post is mostly for the grandparents. Seeing as we were in Milwaukee for Christmas we had to document almost the entire morning for grandparents to catch a glimpse at Marshall's Christmas morning experience. So, enjoy it all Grandpa Bob, Grandma Becky, Grandma Laura, and Grandpa Toney-this one is for you guys!

This is from Christmas Eve. It is so much fun to play Santa for your own children; definitely a highlight of the holiday! My parents purchased the table for Marshall and we (Santa Clause) bought him the train set. We originally purchased the train set this summer at Target on sale with the intention of giving it to him for his birthday, but after he got spoiled in Utah the entire month of September we decided to hold off until Christmas. So glad we did, this table is perfect for it and he is in heaven!


Marshall's stocking display. We picked up the tradition of cereal from Richard's family. I love it, makes Christmas breakfast easy, easy, easy and everyone is happy!

Moving onto Christmas morning...since Daylight Savings Time Marshall has been waking up between 6:00 and 6:30 screaming, unfortunately Christmas was no exception. (As a side note, just this week he has started sleeping past 7:00 and wakes up SO much happier, thank goodness!) Anyway, I was actually able to get him calmed down in his room before taking him out to see his presents, but you can still see the puffy and teary eyes. :(


And here's Marshall one minute later, love at first sight!



All smiles!


Santa Clause checking out the stocking loot.


Marshall going through his stocking. Another tradition we got from the Leakes, a stocking full of candy. Don't worry, he's limited to one piece after lunch and one more after dinner, and if he doesn't ask, we don't offer it-so he's not too sugarloaded!


After the stockings we took a break for breakfast before getting to the presents under the tree. Here's Marshall with the first present he opened; two cars from cousin Katelin-perfect!


I was up next with the biggest surprise of my morning...



Completely unexpected and very exciting.


And now for Richard's surprise...


Can't fake a smile like that...pure happiness.


Richard and his loot; another BYU-themed Christmas.


My Christmas, can't complain! Love that we are still spoiled by parents, yet another benefit from being in medical school without a paycheck. :)


And this is how the little man made out...definitely need a playroom now!


It was a fantastic Christmas morning. Relaxing and full of fun! Marshall is still at the age where he doesn't care about getting through the presents as fast as he can; he's content to play with one for a while before moving on. We didn't finish the morning festivities until 9:00 am-not bad considering our morning began at 6:30!

Later that morning we had five other families over for a Christmas brunch. Unfortunately it went completely picture-less as I forgot to take any pictures until I shut the door after the last family left. Oh well! We still had a great time with the Rabes, Barbers, Lindseys, Burtises, and Rowans. The kids played well, the food was delicious, and the conversation was wonderful.

We spent the rest of the day relaxing, talking on the phone to family, and of course, playing the Wii!

Here's one more cute picture of Marshall with Richard's headphones. He really has become a little ham with an incredibly expressive face-makes me laugh every day!










Thursday, December 30, 2010

Christmas Eve

We spent our Christmas Eve at home, relaxing, and just enjoying time together as a family. For dinner we had a fantastic meal: ham, funeral potatoes, rolls, veggies, and for dessert, a peach cobbler. These are pretty much all of our favorite foods, so it was a definite success! We also ate by candlelight; that was a lot of fun and made the evening extra special.


After dinner we just had fun playing with Marshall. We also watched some highlights from past Mormon Tabernacle Choir Christmas concerts and we finished the evening with a short Nativity movie.

After that Marshall opened his Christmas pajamas. He was so excited to open a present that stopping him after just one resulted in a slight temper-tantrum, but it was short-lived and all was well once again!


Here's some pics of the little man sporting his pajamas. I LOVE these pajamas! He just looks so grown up, and he loves putting his hands in the pockets-so adorable!

How did this kid grow up so fast? Time is flying by!

And just for comparison sake, here we all are last year on Christmas Eve...I think I like my hair shorter (sorry Richard!)


Anyway, one last shot by the Christmas tree, sure do love this little boy!




Sunday, December 26, 2010

Marshall's Performance

Every Christmas the Yancey family (my mom's side of the family) has a musical performance. It started years and years ago with simple piano solos and duets from the young grandchildren and has grown to include fantastic musical performances of piano, singing, saxophones, clarinets, trombones, and guitars. The last couple of years some great-grandchildren have even been able to participate, which has added great entertainment value. :)

On Monday night the Yancey family will once again be gathering at my Grandpa's house for this annual performance. This was the highlight of Christmas for my Grandma Yancey, she loved music and passed that on to all of us. This year our family will be one of the only ones not able to be there in person, but we do have these little videos of Marshall to share.

They are a little on the goofy side, but cute nonetheless. We did try to get more of a calm performance with a different song, but it wasn't working, I guess he's a true Cougar. :)

Introducing Marshall Cougar Leake and the Cougar Fight Song!







And lastly, here's a video we took a few weeks ago, but I thought this would be a good time to put it up seeing as these videos are all about BYU. :)


Friday, December 24, 2010

Merry Christmas!

Yesterday we made our first family gingerbread house. This is a tradition that I grew up with and its a sure favorite of mine. We had a great time decorating and being creative. Its a good thing we made it so close to Christmas too; we are having a hard time keeping Marshall away from it. Less than 24 hours after we finished it he had already pulled off one candy and now it is sitting in our spare bedroom until after Christmas. :)



The roof, I love it, all Richard's doing.


What a little sneak, notice what Marshall is holding and the innocent look on his face. :)


On a different note, I just wanted to get this written down. On Monday I had my doctor appointment and Marshall was with me. When my doctor walked in she just started talking to Marshall and asking him about Christmas and Santa Clause. She then told me that she and her husband had just taken their two little girls (ages 3 and 1) to a breakfast with Santa and she commented on how quickly kids pick up on Santa Clause and what he does. After she said that I realized that we hadn't really told Marshall what Santa Clause does. He has a little stuffed Santa that I've had for years that he sleeps with and he has a "Twas The Night Before Christmas" book. We also missed our church Christmas party this year because we were in Utah, so Marshall hadn't even seen Santa. Anyway, on Tuesday while we were eating lunch I decided to tell Marshall all about Santa Clause, and its true, he is captivated by this idea!

Wednesday: Marshall started opening the presents under the tree. I told him we can't open presents until Christmas Day because we have to wait for Santa Clause to come. The rest of the day he kept saying, "I want Santa Clause to come!"

Thursday: While playing in the living room with Richard he heard the front door to our building open. He immediately stopped playing and said, "Santa Clause is coming!" Later that night I was talking to Marshall about Christmas and I asked him who was born on Christmas (we have been talking about this since the beginning of December and he really does know the answer), but last night he told me that Santa Clause was born on Christmas Day-not quite.

Today: While putting him in his crib for his nap he told me that Santa Clause was going to come while he was sleeping. Close! We'll see what tonight holds; hopefully he will actually sleep!

Merry Christmas everyone! We love you all!

Sunday, December 19, 2010

Flying Fiasco

***This is going to be a long post, but I just want to get this written down. So, I won't blame you if you skip this all together or simply skim!***

On Thursday, December 9, I booked two plane tickets for Marshall and me to fly to Utah for my Grandma's funeral. We were supposed to fly out of Milwaukee at 9:30 am on Saturday morning and make one stop in Minneapolis and arrive in Utah at 1:00 pm. After I booked these tickets I started stressing out a little bit because 1) I'm pregnant, that's what happens. 2) I am not an incredibly flexible and spontaneous person. So, for me to book a flight and be on the plane less than 48 hours later is a little bit of a stressor. But, I kept telling myself that everything was fine. My Christmas shopping was completely done, my work was wonderful and I was easily able to arrange subs, and Richard was committed to taking care of other things I had committed to. By Friday afternoon I was feeling good. So good in fact, Marshall and I were listening to Christmas music and making cookies for Richard to snack on while we would be gone. Here's where the fiasco begins...

At 4:45 pm on Friday afternoon I receive a phone call from Delta. My flight to Minneapolis has been canceled and they have put me on different flights.

I get on Delta's website and see that they have me on two flights. The first from Milwaukee to Atlanta. The second from Las Vegas to Salt Lake. I call Delta because there is no flight from Atlanta to Las Vegas, a small problem. :) They are very helpful and arrange that flight for me.

I receive my new itinerary via email and am less than thrilled with the now ten hour travel day and three flights, with two of them being long.

With the help of my mother-in-law and Richard we find a flight that leaves Milwaukee at 6:40 am and goes to Minneapolis. I can then get the early flight out of Minneapolis and be in Salt Lake around 11:30-perfect! I call Delta, explain that I am traveling with a two year old and would like to keep me travel time as short as possible. They are so accommodating and change my flights, perfect.

At 7:30 pm I try to check-in online. When I get on Delta's website I see that I am only listed for the Minneapolis to Salt Lake flight, not good. I spend the next hour on the phone with Delta to correct the problem, but finally get it resolved and Marshall and I are scheduled for both flights, whew!

At about 9:00 pm my phone rings again, its Delta. My flight out of Minneapolis has been canceled and I am now on a later flight to Salt Lake. Oh well, I can handle it. It just makes our layover longer, but I don't mind, I will still be in Salt Lake by 1:00 pm.

I finish packing for the night all the while Richard is trying to calm me down by making jokes about the whole situation. He does a good job and I go to bed laughing and feeling good.

I wake up at 3:15 am, we're out the door by 4:30. The plane takes off shortly after 6:40 and Marshall does great on the flight. He plays happily by himself, sleeps the last half and I sleep as well. The landing was a little rough, pretty turbulent, and the visibility is horrible in Minneapolis. But, we survived, one flight down, just one more to go.

Once in the airport, I check out our flight status and gate; still scheduled to leave on time at 11:15 am. I see that some flights have been canceled, but most are still scheduled to depart and on time.

Marshall and I have breakfast and head to our gate. The snow is coming down, but it seems light, just windy. A plane pulls up at our gate and the passengers exit. Shortly after we are boarding. They close the cabin doors and the only empty seat on the plane is next to me and Marshall; this makes me very happy.

The pilot announces that we need to wait about ten minutes for the plane to be de-iced and then we will be heading to the runway.

About five minutes later he says that the snow is falling too fast for the plows to keep the runways clear. He says we have been delayed 90 minutes so they are going to let us off the plane. We can leave our large carry-on items on the plane.

As we are unloading he comes back on and says that the airport has been shut down and that we need to take everything off of the plane.

Marshall and I get back inside the airport and I am in shock. Shut down?! What does this mean?! Some Delta employees are telling us we will be leaving in about 90 minutes, others are saying no one is going any where until Sunday!

I go back and stand by the jetway because I have everything but the stroller, which hello, I am not going anywhere without my stroller. I wait for about 5 minutes with no sign of it. As the pilots come off I ask them about the strollers (there were multiple strollers that were gate-checked). They replied that they couldn't help me, how kind. I then ask one of the Delta employees at the desk if I can get my stroller. She says, "Maam, its under the plane already, do you see what its like out there? No one is going outside." At this point my eyes start to water. There is no way I am hauling Marshall, a purse, a diaper bag, two coats, and my six-month pregnant self through an airport for who knows how long without a stroller! As soon as she can tell that I am going to have a breakdown she says that she will see what she can do for me. She makes a few phone calls and tells me to wait ten minutes. Fortunately, ten minutes later I have my stroller, its covered in snow, but hey, I have it.

I then proceed to a Delta office and get in line to speak to someone about my canceled flight. The line is long and I am told by another passing passenger that there is another office with no line. Marshall and I make the long walk to this other office, but it was worth it, no wait.

They inform me that I have been put on a 9:55 pm flight to Salt Lake and that I should make it out. Great, I can handle that, the wait will be long, but at least we will be leaving.

By this point Marshall has fallen asleep in his stroller so I decide to take a nap as well. I find a quiet place, use my coat and purse as a pillow, wrap my arms around the stroller and doze off and on for 20 minutes. During these 20 minutes I receive four phone calls from Delta about changes to my flight. After the fourth phone call I decide to get up and go back to the Delta office.

At the Delta office they tell me that all flights have been canceled for the entire day-ah!!! I cannot tell you the complete despair I experienced at this moment. I was stranded in Minneapolis! Richard wasn't with me, I was exhausted, and all I wanted to do was be in Utah with my family for my grandma's funeral.

They rebook my flight for the next day. The best they can do for me is fly to Chicago at 1:00 pm on Sunday and then catch a flight to Salt Lake, finally arriving at 7:00 pm. Not a happy moment for me. Fortunately though, Delta was able to give me a voucher for a hotel reservation. They had been trying to do this for all their customers, but for some reason, their system wasn't allowing it. But, it worked for me, they think its because I was traveling with Marshall, thank goodness! They give me the name and number of my hotel and tell me to call the hotel because they have a shuttle that will pick me up from the airport and bring me back in the morning. They also tell me I can pick up a toiletry bag at baggage claim, how kind.

By this point I am starving so I decide to eat lunch at the airport before calling the hotel. Fortunately, Marshall has slept through all of this. After he wakes up and eats I call the hotel. Bad news, because of the weather their shuttles are not driving, but I am told I can take a taxi.

I make my way to baggage claim and pick up two toiletry bags. I am also told my checked suitcase will make it to Salt Lake eventually, fantastic.

I follow the signs to taxis and other ground transportation. I have never been in a taxi before and I have no idea how to get one, but I just decide to go where the signs direct me. I take an elevator and when the doors open I am in a huge room full of people. I see signs for taxis, limos, shuttles, buses, etc. At the taxi door I ask a flight attendant if she is in the line for a taxi. She says, "This whole room is the taxi line. Most taxis aren't running because of the snow so you just have to get in line and wait for one to pick you up. I have been here for two hours, just wanted to let you know it is going to be a long wait." Awful news!

I find my way to the back of the long and twisty line, completely distressed. I see that some hotel shuttles are picking people up so I call my hotel one more time just to make sure they aren't running their shuttle. The lady confirms that and tells me the only option is a taxi. By now it is 3:30 pm. I stand in line for the next two hours and finally make it to my hotel by 6:00 pm.

I am exhausted, emotionally wasted, and starving. Marshall was a champion and really did so well through this whole ordeal; I definitely can't complain about that.

I check-in at the hotel. I ask for a crib, they are out, of course. I ask about a place to eat. They tell me everything is closed, but there is a Walmart across the street and they have a Subway.

After getting settled in our room, we bundle ourselves up again and Marshall and I prepare to walk to Walmart. As soon as I exit the hotel doors the shuttle pulls up and asks me where I want to go. Hello?! Where was this shuttle at 3:30 when I was stuck at the airport?! Oh well, I'm just glad he's here now. He drops us off at Walmart. Get inside, Subway is closed, of course. Fortunately our room had a microwave so I buy us two frozen dinners. I also bought $5 pajamas for Marshall (He was filthy from traveling, eating food without a bib, and rolling on the airport floor during our time in the taxi line.) I also bought contact solution for me (my glasses were in my suitcase, bad idea) and plastic utensils for our dinner.

By the time I pay for this I am too hungry to call the shuttle and wait for him to come back and pick me up. I decide Marshall and I will brave the elements and walk back to the hotel. By now it has stopped snowing, but nothing has been plowed and it is freezing. I make it through the parking lot without a problem, but the road is awful and the snow is too deep to push the stroller. So, I pick up Marshall and carry him, the stroller, my purse, and two shopping bags all the way back to the hotel.

We microwave our dinners and eat. Our room has one king bed and a hide-a-bed. I decide Marshall will sleep on the hide-a-bed. I make it up for him, pack every crack with pillows, and line the floor with cushions. I get myself ready for bed using my Delta toothbrush and toothpaste. I put my contacts in two plastic cups. Get Marshall in the bath, put him in pajamas, and lights are out by 9:15. I fall asleep about 9:30 to Marshall still reading books to himself in his bed. Oh well, at least he's staying in his bed.

I sleep fairly well and Marshall doesn't fall off the bed-a success. I wake up at 5:30, but just stay in bed, at 5:45 Marshall coughs, moves, and then starts singing to himself. Great, I surely thought he would sleep until 7:00 after our LONG day. I lay in bed listening to Marshall until he's had it at 6:30 am.

I put on some cartoons for him and give him a bag of trail mix to snack on while I take a shower. After my shower I put on my same clothes I wore the day before and slept in, disgusting, so much for feeling clean! When I go to check on Marshall I notice his hand is red and he's been rubbing his eyes which are also red. I grab a washcloth and wipe him off and we go to breakfast at the hotel.

Once we get into the breakfast room, which was very well-lit compared to our hotel room, I see that Marshall's eyes are swelling and he has blisters around his eyes and hand. What?! Yes, he was eating nuts, but all nuts that he has had on multiple occasions and even just the day before. At this point I was probably a bad mom and decided that we would just eat breakfast anyway. Oh well. By the time we were done with breakfast the swelling had subsided and the blisters were disappearing. I should still check into this though...

At breakfast we hear that not only did Minneapolis get 17 inches of snow, but the roof of the Metrodome collapsed. Wow. All I want is to get out of Minneapolis.

We go back to our room and Richard calls to tell me my flight to Chicago has been canceled, but that I am on an earlier flight that goes straight to Salt Lake. This is the BEST news I have heard in the last 24 hours.

By 9:00 am we are on a shuttle to the airport. The shuttle drops us off at a little Delta office next to the parking garage, odd, but I go in anyway. It is a small room with a few kiosks and just two Delta employees. I use the kiosk and print off my boarding passes for an 11:15 am flight to Salt Lake-hooray! I see that the flight is delayed until 11:40, but who cares, I will take it!

I follow the signs to get to the main building and see complete chaos in all the lines for every airline. I am just ecstatic that I already have my boarding passes and am checked in-no horrible line for me!

I find the security line and although it is long, it moves quickly.

Eventually by noon Marshall and I are on a plane bound for Salt Lake; I am cautiously optimistic. After about one hour of sitting we finally take off. (Only one runway was clear at the airport.) Marshall did fairly well on the flight and only screamed for 30 minutes of the two hour flight. I can't say I really blame him though. We finally land in Salt Lake and I am thrilled to see both of my parents-what an ordeal!

We head to baggage claim and I am fully prepared to hear that my bag is still in Minneapolis. I am lucky though, and thrilled, when the baggage claim office takes me to a room and hands me my suitcase-a true blessing!

By 4:00 pm Sunday afternoon I am at my parents' house. I shower, put on clean clothes, clean up Marshall, and I am happy.

Wow, what an adventure, and one I hope to never repeat.

With the exception of crying about not getting my stroller, I was very composed with every person I interacted with at the airport and hotel. However, every time I talked to Richard or my parents I was a complete basket-case! They all heard lots of tears from me that day!

Fortunately our flights back to Milwaukee were much less eventful. I did have a two plus hour delay in Minneapolis, but that is much better than a 25-hour delay! However, I have no desire to step foot in an airport or airplane again-it is definitely going to be a while!

Friday, December 10, 2010

Grandma Yancey




Today I woke up to a phone call that I've actually been expecting for months. My Grandma Yancey peacefully passed away at her home at 5:10 this morning. My grandpa and both of my parents were with her. Tomorrow morning Marshall and I are flying to Utah for the funeral and to spend some time with the family. It will be a bitter-sweet trip, but a good one nonetheless.

I have always had a special bond with my Grandma Yancey. My grandparents had four sons and one daughter, my mom. My mom also had four sons and just one daughter, me. :) Up until I was 15 years old, we were their only grandchildren who lived close to them, all the others lived out of state and sometimes even overseas. My grandma baby-sat me from the time I was a little baby and she tells me that's where that great bond began. Grandma Yancey was my first piano teacher. She attended almost every piano recital, every choir concert, and every dance performance. Together we attended plays, dance performances, and even an opera.

Richard and I lived with my grandparents for seven months before moving to Milwaukee. It was great to spend that time with them and it was during that time that my grandma's health really started to decline. But, despite her poor health, and the geographical distance between us we were able to maintain a close relationship. We frequently emailed each other, talked on the phone, and in recent months, Skyped.

When my grandma was in second grade she had rheumatic fever which left her with a weak heart. When my mom was in high school she had open heart surgery to replace one of her heart valves. When I was in 6th grade she had open heart surgery again to replace her artificial valve. She always took excellent care of herself, and thanks to her good choices and modern medicine she was able to live a full life.

Over the last couple of years her congestive heart failure began to catch up with her. In August she made the decision to turn off her defibrillator on September 1st. We arrived in Utah on August 30 and I spent the next couple of days with her certain she didn't have much time left. Well, September came and went and I was blessed with an entire month with her. Marshall and I spent much time at my grandparents' home and we enjoyed many visits, many meals, and some good laughs. How grateful I am for that month!

On Sunday evening Marshall and I were able to Skype with her for what we both knew would be the last time. She was alert, talkative, and we were able to enjoy a 30 minute conversation. Marshall entertained her with his antics and I was able to say my final good-byes and have a good cry. Marshall ended our conversation by blowing her a kiss and saying, "I love you. See you later." Perfect.

I am 27 years old and until today I had four living grandparents, pretty remarkable, and quite a blessing. The passing of my grandmother is the first significant loss in my life. How grateful I am for the Gospel of Jesus Christ. I am grateful for the knowledge that I have of the Plan of Salvation. I have a testimony of the Priesthood, temples, and the sealing power that binds families together for eternity.

This morning after getting off the phone with my parents I stayed in bed for a while. After a few minutes I heard Marshall wake up and he began happily reading to himself. Right after that this little girl started moving around and giving me some gentle jabs. I just laid in bed for a few minutes so grateful for families; grateful for the family I came from, and grateful for the little family Richard and I have. I consider those few peaceful minutes a blessing and a gift from my Grandma Yancey and Heavenly Father. Despite this sad time, I have so much to be grateful for, and so much to be happy about. My Grandma Yancey is in a better place. She is free from pain, fatigue, and she has been reunited with so many family members who have gone on before her. She was such a blessing in my life and I love her.


Sunday, December 5, 2010

Videos from Vernal

Just some videos from our week in Vernal with Richard's parents. Amazing what one can do with a stick horse and the BYU Marching Band. Fortunately, Marshall didn't break one thing the entire week with that horse!











Welcome Home

A month of mail, not so fun to sort through. We let Marshall do most of the work.



What You Don't Want To See On A Road Trip

Richard's mom, Becky, was a saint and made the drive from Utah to Milwaukee with Marshall and me. (Richard had to finish out the entire month in Utah.) Anyway, on day one of our drive we came upon this...

That's right, this is the worker who is supposed to be holding the stop sign during road construction. You know its going to be a LONG stop when the worker is sitting on the side of the road eating his LUNCH!

After several minutes of waiting I got out of the car and asked the worker how long we were going to be stopped. He told me it would be 15-20 minutes-great. :( Thankfully we were only the second car in line and it was a cool day so we just turned the car off and enjoyed the breeze. Marshall didn't seem to mind the delay too much-that's an even bigger blessing!



Utah Wrap-Up

Well, here we are in December and I think I will finally wrap up our September in Utah. Here are just some pictures of fun, but random events, during our trip.

A trip to the park with Grandma Laura.

Making friends with some ducks.


Very friendly ducks who aren't afraid to leave the water to get some food!


Another playground.


The day before we left Utah Marshall and I drove to Vernal because Richard's mom was going to drive back to Milwaukee with Marshall and me while Richard finished his rotation in Provo. After dinner we went out for ice cream and Grandpa Bob and Marshall shared a bowl. (Marshall had never had much interest in ice cream so I told Bob that we didn't need to get Marshall any.) Well, Marshall LOVED this ice cream and after just a few bites he didn't let Bob eat anymore! Bob was a good sport about the whole thing and this is how the evening ended...Marshall completely finishing every last drop of ice cream.



Since this event Marshall has gone back to not really liking ice cream-sorry Bob! :)