Marshall At Ten

Marshall is TEN!!!  As of one month ago...and then some.  Time flies!  As the old saying goes, "The days are long, but the years are short".  I can hardly believe Marshall has entered double digits and that Richard and I have been parents for a decade.  Here are some things about Marshall that I always want to remember.

Marshall is a routine driven child, and I love it.  He sets his own alarm and likes to wake up at 6:15 am Monday through Friday.  He does this so he can see Richard before he leaves for work, but he also loves to read in the morning.  If Richard's schedule happens to be different so that he is leaving unreasonably early, or leaves later, it can be hard to persuade Marshall to alter his 6:15 am wake up.  But every morning, Marshall comes upstairs with a book and his blankets and reads until 6:55, very specific.  He then eats breakfast, and then gets all ready for his day, including getting his jobs done.  At night, once we have tucked him in, he reads more and usually turns his light off between 9:00 and 9:30. 

Speaking of going to bed though, early this summer, Richard read an article linking heart disease to hours of sleep a person gets each night.  Richard knew Marshall would find this fascinating, so he showed him the article.  Marshall decided that in order to prevent heart disease for himself, he needed to be in bed, lights out, by 8:30 pm.  For consecutive nights Marshall would just put himself to bed before 8:30...in the summer time!  It was short-lived, but we loved it, and also found it amusing.  :)

Marshall is loving 4th grade.  There is so much history in the curriculum and he is just eating it up.  For a long time, Marshall has wanted to be both a paleontologist and the president of the United States.  At school they just recently wrapped up a unit on rocks and now Marshall has decided to be a geologist.  He has loved all that information and got 100% on the test last week.  One night last week he also spent an entire evening talking to Richard about protons and electrons and I could hardly believe the questions that were coming out of his mouth.  I was just glad Richard was there to provide some answers!

Marshall has ventured into the world of competition soccer and is really, really enjoying it.  He tried out back in June, and I was just so proud of him.  He was ecstatic when he found out he made a team.  They practice two days a week and usually have one or two games a week.  His coach is amazing and I feel like we lucked out to get such a great coach.  Marshall has made exceptional progress and I love to watch him play.  He is getting more confident, but we would all love to see some more confidence from him.  Soccer has been a great physical outlet for him, and it is so fun to watch him improve his talents. 

As I mentioned earlier, Marshall still loves to read.  A couple of years ago, he finished all the Harry Potter books.  Richard just bought Marshall his own set of books, and Marshall immediately started re-reading them.  He just finished the last book over the weekend. 

Marshall's favorite foods remain cinnamon rolls and French Dip sandwiches.  He also loves shrimp, and is still bummed that no one in his immediate family likes it.  Thank goodness he has grandparents who do!!!  This summer we made Marshall start pouring his own cereal in the morning, and some days it is still a battle! 

Marshall has set a goal to run a 5K on Thanksgiving Day.  Since the beginning of the school year, he and I have been running one night a week together.  These are, hands down, my most favorite moments with Marshall.  He is a complete delight, and despite running, just talks a mile a minute.  He asks me questions, tells me stories, shares his many insights into life, his worries, his thoughts, and I just run in awe at this little boy.  His mind is always on, always thinking, and always going.  It is amazing.

Marshall still loves Legos.  For his birthday, he got the big Lego police station and it has been a hit.  It took him three days to put together, and he still loves playing with it.  Win!

Marshall still continues to be high-energy, and our most demanding and challenging child.  However, he has a soft, soft heart, and I love seeing glimpses of that.  He has had a few instances this last year where he has needed to help his sisters, because I was not able to, and he does so with such love and attention and concern.  When Bridget, especially, gets hurt, he is very worried about her and is always eager for an update when one of the girls has to go to the doctor.  Marshall always wants a hug and a kiss in the morning before school, no matter how rough the morning has been.  And when I tell him I love him, he is always quick to reciprocate. 

We are so grateful that we have Marshall in our family.  He is certainly our guinea pig, and I hope we aren't messing up too badly.  We have learned so much by being his parents, and I am sure we have much more to learn!  He is one of our most favorite people to be around (when he is happy!) and we love him dearly!

Gretchen At Two

Our little Grizz Bear is two years old!!!  She is still tiny as ever, and we love all the comments we get while we are out about how darling and small she is.  We couldn't agree more!  Here are some things about Gretchen we always want to remember...

  

*At two years old, Gretchen is off the weight chart, in the negative direction!  Gretchen is 20 lbs. 15 oz. and 31.8 inches long.  Height wise, she is in the 10%.  So there's that!  And in true Toney form, her head is in the 95% at 19.7 inches around.  So it seems that most of her weight is in her darling head.  

*Following in the footsteps of her sisters, she is a picky eater.  I seriously feel like I feed her the same ten foods every single day:  apple juice, toast, yogurt, granola bars, z bars, nut bars, cheese pizza, and grilled cheese sandwiches.  Fortunately, she does like milk and drinks it every afternoon.  The only consistent fruit it seems she will always eat are plums, but sometimes she also eats strawberries, blueberries, raspberries, grapes, and bananas.  Though she actually does eat celery, cucumbers, and carrots; however, these are all very hard for her to chew, so it seems I eventually end up scraping them out of her mouth hoping that she is gaining some nutrients from them!  She also likes nuts...so maybe she is not as picky as I initially thought!  Yesterday she ate an entire chicken nugget and that alone made my day.  :)  She used to eat pasta of any kind, but stopped doing that months ago and that is actually very frustrating.  :)

*Gretchen has made SO much physical progress in the last year, and it has been so fun to watch her learn.  Last year at this time she was scooting to get around, and would not/could not stand even with support.  In the last year she has learned how to stand, how to pull herself up to stand, cruise along furniture, walk with push toys, walk unassisted, crawl up stairs, go down stairs on her tummy, jump, run, and step up and down a curb.  All of these things are huge accomplishments and we have celebrated them all.  I will forever be grateful to Early Intervention and her lovely therapist, who I came to love and still miss!  

*Gretchen is talking so well!  We love to hear her little voice.  She sometimes strings three or four words together, and it is a delight to hear.  She can say all of our names.  Some of my favorite things to hear her say are:  rocking chair, baby shark, hi mama, stop it mama, Elmo poopy, be naked, and sleepin'  :)

 *Speaking of naked, Gretchen has gone most of the summer in just a diaper.  Drives me NUTS!!!  So many cute clothes hang in her closet, and while it makes my laundry life easier, gosh I wish she would wear clothes!  She has mastered zippers and snaps, and can wiggle out of anything with a button, so even if she starts the day dressed, by the end of the day, she is usually back to a diaper.  I am desperately hoping that the change in weather will bring a change to her opinion of clothing!

*To my recollection, Gretchen is the only one of our kids who says, "Carry me" instead of "Carry you".  Smart girl! 

*Gretchen hates being laid down for a nap or for the night.  She cries 95% of the time I lay her down.  She has been doing this her whole life!  She never cries for long, usually less than one minute, but every time I lay her down and she cries I think to myself that I can't believe she is still doing this!  That being said, Richard is winning her over at night and they have a great routine going.  He rocks her for a long time and sings primary songs and then she just lays down, without even a whine.  He is soaking this up.  :)

*Gretchen LOVES the Baby Shark song on YouTube.  She asks all day long for Baby Shark, and as I mentioned earlier, I love the way she says Baby Shark and I could listen to her ask for it all day long.  She can also frequently be found dancing around in a room while singing Baby Shark.  She also loves I Am A Child of God, Twinkle Little Star, and Shall We Dance.

*One of Gretchen's current favorite activities is playing spa with Bridget.  :)  Bridget puts her up on her bed, tucks her in, and then pampers her and Gretchen just soaks it up.  

*Gretchen loves babies, bottles, and the Tickle Me Elmo she got for her birthday.  She also loves walking around in the high heel dress up shoes.  She loves putting on other people's socks, but not her own socks.   

*Gretchen had a terrible six day stomach flu right before her birthday and during that entire time she was so hard to handle.  Rightly so, I am sure she felt miserable, but it was so hard to handle.  None of us were used to so much crying from little Gretchen!  I am happy to report though that since she recovered, Gretchen has been completely delightful and I am soaking her up!!!  My goodness, she brings me so much happiness hour after hour.  She is happy, she is talkative, she is sweet, she is snuggly, she is so tiny and cute and has big brown eyes and the cheesiest smile.  We love, love, love this tiny girl!

Rachel At Five

Our summer, clearly, due to lack of writing, has been nuts!  But in the chaos of our lives, sweet Rachel Louise has turned five, and before we celebrate three other birthdays in our family, I have to devote some writing to her!  

*Shortly after Rachel's fifth birthday, she had her well-child check-up with our new pediatrician.  In the last year, Rachel actually lost two ounces, but grew 3 1/2 inches...so at least we have that going for us!  The pediatrician was not alarmed, but did ask us to come back for a weight check in six months.  We'll see what that visit holds!

*In keeping with medically related information, we found out in July that Rachel had seven cavities, which actually turned into nine.  Lovely.  They have all been taken care of now, and she was a trooper through it all.  There were a few factors that I am sure contributed to this and we are trying to remedy all of them:  Richard or I brush her teeth now, we floss, we try to brush first thing in the morning after she has finished breakfast, less food grazing throughout the day (her favorite hobby, but you wouldn't know it by the scale!), less sticky foods...that is a very tricky one for her!  Ahhh!!!  I am nervous to take her back for a dental cleaning in January.  There is also the potential she has Richard's dental genes, but hopefully we can at least improve her dental health!

*Rachel's current favorite foods are spaghetti with meatballs, strawberries, fettuccine alfredo, French toast, applesauce pouches, and strawberry fruit strips.

*Rachel still remains very much a mama's girl, though she does greet Richard every night with the best hugs and loads of enthusiasm.  

*Rachel loves, loves, loves to snuggle.  Sometimes it is too much for Gretchen and Bridget, but I love her snuggles, unless we are at church and she is literally smothering me.  At night she loves for me to tuck her in with her two baby blankets, the brown one first, with the tag in just the right spot so she can rub it.  :)  She rolls to her side and in the kindest voice asks me to rub her back, under her shirt, while I sing her "Keep the Commandments" two times.  :)  You would think that after that she would stay in bed, but she literally pops up seconds later.  She takes after her brother and it is harder for her to unwind at night.  She usually looks at books by the nightlight for a bit before climbing back in bed.  

*Rachel's imagination is alive and well!  For over a year, she has been making up pretend friends.  The whole story-line morphs and changes every few months, but for a while now we have been hearing about Carla, Clarabelle, and recently Carla has a new baby sister named Cupcake.  :)  They live in the ghost world.  The other day Rachel was having me guess animals based on magnets she was putting together.  I asked for a hint and she told me that the animal lived in the ghost world.  :)  I did my best to not crack up laughing!  

*Rachel is an emotional little girl, both for good and for bad.  She can be so sweet and sensitive and loving and concerned for people.  But her fears can get the best of her and she becomes inconsolable.  

*A couple of weeks ago we were at the Davis County Fair.  As we had been walking around, Rachel had noticed Elsa and Anna posing for pictures.  I told her we could talk to them later.  When we were ready to find them, Elsa and Anna had moved somewhere else and we couldn't see them.  Just a few minutes later, Elsa and Anna were walking back and Rachel ran, literally ran to them.  She hugged Elsa for SO long, so long that it caught Elsa off guard and made me and Stacie cry.  She then hugged Anna for just as long and all of our hearts melted into a puddle of tears.  

*Rachel has been begging for a long time to take a ballet class.  In the spring, she participated for a few weeks in a ballet class before the studio took a break for the summer.  I enrolled her again and she cannot wait to get back to ballet next week!  I must say, her pointed toes are very impressive!  She can already do an arabesque and her lines are beautiful!  She will be my dancing daughter.  :)

*Rachel came a long way with preschool drop-off, and has excelled with kindergarten drop off.  I am actually shocked at how well it has gone!  She could hardly wait to go to kindergarten since Marshall and Bridget started last week and was delighted when it was finally her turn!  

*Rachel and Marshall are either worst enemies or best friends.  Due to their emotional volatility they either love each other or hate each other.  Sometimes managing those two becomes very taxing, but we soak in the moments they get along and hope that one day they will last longer! 

*Rachel can turn any object into a baby or group of objects into a family.  When she is done playing, we frequently find toys organized into a circle with make shift beds with everyone in their own bed.  It melts my heart every single time.  

We love our Rachel Louise, who still mostly goes by Doke or Dokie.  :)