Hello!
The biggest news of our week is that Bridget turned 11 on Friday, her golden birthday on March 11th. Bridget is a true light in our lives. She remains our calm, happy, and content child. She is flexible and easy-going, but she plans ahead and uses her time well with school work and jobs around the house. Most nights during dinner, we ask the kids to tell us one good thing and one bad or hard thing about their day. Bridget rarely has anything negative to say. She loves life and all that it brings her each day. She loves going to school. She has loved musical practices. She likes going to piano lessons. And of course, she loves the farm. She continues to amaze me at the farm. There are a couple of things she does not really enjoy doing there like watering the chickens (the grossest job) and feeding hissing geese in a dark shed (who can blame her?!), but she doesn't complain about it! She just buckles down and does it. Bridget remains a wonderful sister to all her siblings and they all love playing with her. She sometimes finds herself in the middle with Marshall begging to play with her and Rachel and Gretchen begging her to play with them. She lives life in a seemingly effortless state. So content. On Thursday morning I was in line to buy tickets for the school musical and a 6th grade girl was in line behind me. We struck up a conversation and I found out she was in Bridget's same cast. She asked who my daughter was and when I said Bridget, her eyes lit up and she said, "Oh I love Bridget! She is so sweet and always happy and kind." My heart wanted to burst. Bridget is all those things to me, and it made me so happy to know that her peers see that in her too. When Richard and I went to bed after midnight on Friday night he said to me, "We officially have a tween daughter." Oh gosh, I am just praying that all these good qualities of her's carry her through her teenage years.
Bridget had a wonderful birthday. We made sure everyone was up and ready to open presents at 7:00 am! She got two Lego sets, two goat blankets, and a couple of new shirts. She was delighted with each one. She has put both Lego sets together already and as I type this, all the kids are downstairs playing Lego City with the new additions. Bridget requested donuts and baked eggs for breakfast, but it was just a girls breakfast because Richard left for work at 7:15 and Marshall left for school at 7:30. It was still a lot of fun though! She was so happy to go to school that day. She got to take five objects that would tell her class a bit more about herself. She took a Harry Potter book, a pencil because she loves to draw, a little horse, her grand prize ribbon from the State Fair, and of course, a picture of her and Luv Bug, the goat. :) She also took rice krispy treats to pass out to her class. After school, she had dress rehearsal for the musical. She loved it! She got home at 4:15 and her party started at 5:00. She helped me with some of the prep work and then her friends started arriving. She invited six girls and they all just had a really great night together. She didn't want me to plan any games, which I was thankful for, but also a bit nervous about! The party was from 5:00-9:30, so we had 4 1/2 hours to fill, but it went great! The girls played games, made up games, had dinner, opened presents (she got 10 squishmellows!), had cake, watched some of a movie, and then just played and played and laughed and laughed. It is a really, really good group of girls, and I am so thankful for that. My parents stopped by yesterday to see her birthday haul, visit with her, and give her their gift. I think it is safe to say she felt very loved all weekend long. We sure love her.
The rest of our week was not too exciting. Here are some highlights...
On Tuesday, Richard worked from home, 5:00 pm to midnight. Earlier that day, he had to go pick up his new home work station. When he walked in with the biggest monitor he asked me to guess how much the monitor cost, I guessed $5000. Wrong! $18,000! Yikes! Thankfully, we did not pay for it! He never had anything this fancy at the U! Anyway, his workstation is in our bedroom, but I opted to try sleeping in there while he worked. I figured if I can fall asleep at night while Richard is talking to me in bed, surely I could fall asleep with him on the other side of the room talking in a dictaphone! Wrong again! I definitely dozed, but did not fall into a good sleep until 12:15 am! I don't think he will have many of these shifts, but when he does, I will definitely be sleeping elsewhere!
On Wednesday, Gretchen had Charlie over after preschool. They were so happy to play together and had a great time imagining all sorts of things. Marshall helped with a YM/YW service project that night. Our ward partnered with the Bountiful Food Pantry and the YM/YW gathered the food donations from people's porches. The bishop said today they collected 1500 lbs. of food.
Bridget had a big day on Thursday. School, musical practice, and then the farm. She and I were working in the dark that night on the farm, and while I was out with her in the dark I thought to myself this is the only good thing about daylight savings time! Hopefully our last time there in the dark for the next while!
Aside from Bridget's birthday highlights on Friday, I worked in the Charger Store at the junior high, and as always, had a ball there! It really is so fun. Cooper's family was kind and had Marshall over for the afternoon and evening so Marshall wouldn't be stuck in a house full of girls. He had so much fun with Cooper, and I am so glad they have been able to keep up this friendship. I told Richard to go see Batman Friday night after work. He loved it. Oh, one other huge highlight from Friday is we have decided to fork out the big bucks and hire a company to finish our deck. Richard and Bob have done an amazing job with the entire retaining wall and the 1/3 of the deck they replaced, but it takes SO much time, and with Richard's new job, we just didn't know how we could fit it in. Initially, they weren't going to begin until April, but called us this week and asked if they could start. Of course we said yes! They will build the 1/3 of the deck Bob and Richard ripped out last spring, and then tear down and rebuild the covered portion. We cannot wait to finally have a finished deck for this spring and summer!
Yesterday Bridget had Cambria over for most of the day. All the girls had fun playing with her. Marshall had an indoor game and then went straight to a birthday party at the trampoline park. Last night, Richard and I went out to dinner with the Pitts. I have written about them before, but it has been so long since we have seen them. We met them in Milwaukee and then they moved out here shortly after us. They live in the same condo complex my grandparents used to live in. We haven't seen them in about three years and we LOVED our dinner out with them. The kids did okay at home. :) Gretchen and Rachel were not thrilled with Marshall as the baby-sitter last night!
Today the big highlight was Richard sang in church and I played the piano. Haha! I have not played the piano in a sacrament meeting since December 2007, so this was big. The bishopric was asked to sing and with Richard being the ward clerk, I was recruited to play the piano. The bishop was so kind and let me pick the hymn. :) They sang Where Can I Turn for Peace and despite all their grumbling at both our practices, they all did a really great job! The bishop, Richard, and another clerk sang the second verse acapella and now the secret is out that Richard has a great singing voice, much to his dismay!
We are headed into a crazy week. Bridget has four musical performances. Rachel has her first dance competition next weekend. Anyone want to give me a make-up tutorial?!?! Marshall has soccer. And Richard works all weekend! Hopefully we survive!
Love each of you,
Richard, Jenny, Marshall, Bridget, Rachel, and Gretchen :)