Hello! We have made it through the end of another school year. We have never had a busier May, and by the time Friday afternoon rolled around, it all hit me! Talk about physical and even emotional exhaustion! I was spent. But, the kids all had a fantastic, fantastic Friday, and we are all having a good weekend. Here's a recap of the last two weeks...
May 15th: This was such a wonderful day. The whole week of May 15th the kindergartners didn't have school because they all had individual testing appointments with Mrs. Conners. Gretchen was happy to have a week off of school, and I was able to fill it with fun for her, and some for me! On this particular day, Richard didn't have work either so after we got the kids off to school, the three of us drove down to Thanksgiving Point for the Tulip Festival. We also met Danny, Stacie, Cal and Chase down there and spent the morning with them. We loved walking through all the beautiful gardens and seeing all varieties of tulips. It was all so beautiful. Cal and Gretchen had the best time together, as they always do. And Richard and I loved talking with Danny and Stacie. We also ran into my cousin Liz down there, and she lives up in Tremonton! That was a special treat to catch up with her for a few minutes. When we were done at the tulip festival, we had lunch at JCW's with Danny and Stacie before driving home. Such a wonderful morning! Rachel had a fun night at dance that night. Instead of her full 3.25 hours of dance class, it was only 2 hours, and they rehearsed the finale for the upcoming recital and had a pizza party. Rachel had a blast!



May 16th: We had cute little Charlie Atkinson over for the morning. Charlie and Gretchen played games until it was time to go to the park. I had organized a kindergarten get-together at Freedom Hills Park and we had such a great turnout. Almost everyone in the kindergarten class was able to come and most people stayed for over two hours! The kids were so cute. Every time another kindergarten friend would come, they would be greeted with sincere jubilance from the other kids. It was so fun to watch. The moms sat and talked, and got extreme sunburns! It was nuts. When we got to the park, it was cloudy and sunscreen did not even cross my mind. After we had been there for a while, and the sun had come out, a mom sprayed all the kids with sunscreen, but I don't think a single mom used it. I, along with many other moms, got scorched! Yikes! I honestly don't think my forearms have ever been so red. I was wearing jeans, but they have ripped knees, and my knees got sunburned! Later that night, Gretchen looked at me and said, "I'm so glad a mom put sunscreen on me so that I don't look like you!" Seriously! After school, Rachel had dance, Marshall had soccer practice, and Bridget had the farm. It was my turn for the farm, but in hopes of expediting things, I dropped Bridget and Cambria off at the farm at 5:15, told them I would be back in an hour, and to do their very best. Cambria's mom and I have been hoping against hope that these girls could pull off doing the farm chores mostly by themselves this summer, so Tuesday was a bit of a dress rehearsal for that. I got back to the farm at 6:15, and while they hadn't finished as much as I had wanted them to, things seemed to be going okay. I helped them finish watering the animals while they finished feeding, and then we walked over to the chicken coop so I could help them finish watering over there. The girls had fed the chickens first thing. As we got closer to the chicken coop, I started noticing there were chickens everywhere, except inside the chicken coop! Ahhh!!! The girls realized after they had fed the chickens, they had forgotten to lock the door! Ah! The Garlicks probably have about 40 chickens and about 20 had gotten out. Oh my. We then spent the next almost 30 minutes herding those chickens back in. Cambria was the only one of us who was willing to pick them up, and she did pick up a few, but picking up a chicken is no easy task. The most successful thing I discovered was to have Bridget and Cambria make a wide circle around a group of chickens in order to get behind them and then slowly walk behind them to move them along, in hopes that they would just keep walking, come around the corner, and then I was there to open the door to the chicken coop. Each one of these attempts was successful one chicken at a time. It was just bananas. We eventually got all of them in, but I am certain Bridget and Cambria will never make this mistake again! My word. Due to the chickens and some other factors, the farm took a LONG time that night. When the girls had finally finished milking, just before 9:00, they realized they had forgotten to feed and water the baby chicks...so back to the stinking chicken coop we went. By this time, I just wanted to be home. The girls could not figure out the water contraption for the chicks, so in an attempt to help, I grabbed it from them...with my bare hands! I never touch anything at the farm without gloves on, but I had already put my gloves in the van, and it was a minute before I realized I was handling this thing, covered in chick poop, with my bare hands. Ugh. I half screamed, half moaned, when I realized what I had done! Another low point in life at the farm for me! We finally figured it all out and left the farm at 9:15. What a night.
May 17th: Wednesday morning was Gretchen's kindergarten testing and she did a great job! She has learned so much this year. When she started kindergarten, she knew most of the letters and sounds, but she was still a little iffy on a few. Now, she is reading, and reading SO well. Numbers were a little tricky for her and even in March she was still getting 12 and 20 confused and at the beginning of 2023, she hadn't quite figured out the number patterns to get counting past 20. She now rocks all of it! I am so proud of her! Anyway, after testing, we drove up to Layton to Danny and Stacie's. Grizz and I had lunch up there and then I left her to play while I ran to a quick doctor appointment in Kaysville. Gretchen and I got home just before kids started coming home from school. After school, our life was busy, busy. Bridget had horseback riding and my wonderful neighbor brought her home for me because I was at a cross country meeting at the high school. I thought it would be a quick 20 minute meeting, nope, one hour later it was finally done! But, we are excited for Marshall! Richard got home from work shortly before he needed to get Marshall to his soccer game, and I was still at the high school. When Richard got home, he found a bunch of neighborhood kids in swimsuits at the top of our yard running through our sprinklers up there. Upon a little investigation, he realized that the sprinkler zone had been on ALL day. Yikes! I had not really been home since 10:00 am and clearly had not noticed it, plus it really is the one at the top of our backyard, so you can't see it or hear it from inside our house. Man. It hasn't happened since, so we are chalking it up to a glitch in the timer/valve that day. Yikes. After dealing with all of that, Richard got Marshall to his soccer game and I covered dance for Rachel that night. Bridget went to the combined YM/YW activity that night where they played gym games. Another very full day!
May 18th: That afternoon was parent day in Gretchen's dance class, so I was able to go and watch her ballet and jazz class. I will admit, I dozed off a couple of times and I was crossing my fingers no one noticed. But later Gretchen told me, "You slept for a few minutes in my class!" Clearly, my dozing off did not escape her! But, all the parts I was awake for, I loved! Gretchen has not been loving dance class for the last few months. She always goes, and she always has fun, but when I tell her it's time to get ready for dance, she is not thrilled. I have been on the fence about signing her up for next fall, but I did love being there to watch her dance. She does love her jazz class, and smiled through it all. Rachel had a group piano lesson after school, and Bridget and Cambria once again had the farm with me! I tried a different approach with them this time. We got there at 5:05 and together we did all the chicken stuff together, with which the three of us only took 10 minutes! I then left them and told them I had no idea when I would be back, because our evening was once again crazy. I finally made it back there about 7:15, with Rachel and Gretchen, and I was shocked and over the moon happy to find that they had just finished milking and everything else was DONE! I could not believe it. I double checked that they had milked all 11 goats, fed everyone and I checked everyone's waters. Done! I cannot tell you how happy I was and how much hope this gives me for the summer! I honestly feel like I have gotten years of my life back! Haha! To reward such an amazing focused and determined work ethic, I let all four girls play for 30 minutes, and they were all very happy about that. When we were headed home Bridget and Cambria told me their goal was to stay totally focused, work fast, in hopes that they would be done before I got back and their plan was to tell me they hadn't started milking yet in hopes of making me mad! Ha! The little jokesters! Turns out they made my night!



May 19th: This was a day! And I am beyond lucky that Richard just happened to have the day off; otherwise, it would not have been possible to manage! I was up at 5:00 am and out the door at 5:40 to help judge the junior high dance company auditions that started at 6:00 am. This was my third year doing this, and I love it every time. A great start to my morning. Richard managed the morning at home seamlessly. On my way home, I was able to see Bridget and Rachel walking to school and stopped to give them a hug and a kiss. My heart. I love them. I was home for just a bit before leaving again to go back to the junior high. Marshall had his band solo that morning and I was his accompanist. This solo had been hanging over both our heads for the entire week. Marshall was much less diligent about practicing this year compared to last year. We had been playing together since Sunday, and let me tell you, our Sunday and Monday practice sessions were ROUGH. I am pretty sure on Monday he yelled at me to just follow him and match what he is doing. I kindly pointed out that if he does not play the right rhythm it is near impossible to follow him! We got better and better together though as the week went on, but I was still very nervous! I am happy to report that it went quite well! He played the first page so beautifully, maybe the best he's ever done. There are some incredibly high notes on the second page, and he didn't quite get a couple of those, but overall, we stayed together, ended strong, and played one of the best we ever have. Win! We were both so relieved to have it done! I zipped out of there and drove to The Coffee Shop downtown. Richard had dropped Gretchen off at Genevieve's house and we were meeting Ricky and Katie for brunch. We spent the best two hours with them, and we could have easily spent two more. We ate delicious food and talked all about parenting, kids, the highs and lows, summer vacations, work, and just the craziness of life in general. It was the best morning. After that, I was supposed to drive down to Lehi to have lunch with Lara but her son threw up at school that morning, so she cancelled, and I will admit, I was quite happy to get the afternoon at home, even though I definitely missed seeing Lara. I picked Gretchen up at Genevieve's, came home and snuggled her and promptly fell asleep on the couch until Richard, Becky, and the girls all came home. Bridget had a wonderful afternoon and evening. Soon after getting home from school, she went with three friends to do baptisms at the Bountiful Temple. She and her friends have been trying to make this happen since January and thanks to a wonderful mom who snagged four open slots that morning, it was finally able to happen! After the temple, they went back to her friend's house to change clothes and then they all went to Boondocks for a 6th grade DARE celebration. They had a great, great afternoon and evening. Cambria's mom picked them up at 8:00 and then the girls played laser tag outside in our yard for a long time. That evening, the rest of us, including Grandma Becky, were cheering on Rachel and Gretchen. Rachel had her spring piano recital at 5:30 and then her dance recital at 7:15. Gretchen's dance recital was at 6:00, so it was a busy night! Becky, Richard, and Marshall went to Rachel's piano recital and her piano teacher was so kind to accommodate us and had Rachel first on the program so she could leave right after. Richard got a video of her playing, and she did a wonderful job! She loved her recital song and played it totally memorized with wonderful dynamics. As soon as she was done playing, they zipped over to Viewmont and were able to walk in the auditorium with me. Gretchen performed great in both her ballet dance and her jazz dance. Despite claiming that she does not like dance, when we got to the high school she was so excited to get back with her class, she and I both forgot to put on her ballet shoes! I had them with me, we just spaced putting them on. But, regardless, she did great and is darling and I love her. Rachel came back with me to get her after her jazz dance and those two sisters were so cute together. Rachel is a master at showing affection, and those two just ran to each other and Rachel picked her up and gave her a huge hug and told her she danced so well. My heart. I wish I had my camera out! After Gretchen's recital, I stayed in the hallway to finish getting Rachel ready for her recital. Gretchen stayed with us and had fun running up and down the halls while all of Rachel's teammates kept telling her how cute she was. :) Becky, Richard and Marshall stayed in the auditorium and sat through another recital that didn't have any of our kids in it. :) They are wonderful sports! I finished getting Rachel ready just in time for her recital (still hate false eyelashes) and then Gretchen and I went back to the auditorium. Rachel was in four dances, so she had a big night, and I left the auditorium after each of her dances to help her change, and Gretchen always followed. It was a night! Rachel and her team did SO well. At their first recital before competition season in March, all the dances were good, but now they are amazing. Even Richard, the non-dancer that he is, saw great growth. And I also loved looking over and stealing a glance at him through the night-he was always looking at the stage, whether he had a daughter up there or not. He is a great, great dad, and is turning into quite a dance dad! This spring he has done more dance pick-ups than me I think! I love him. Okay, back to the girls...Rachel did so awesome. I love watching her. Her team also performed a ballet piece, special for this recital, and she danced beautifully. And even though Gretchen was in and out with me helping Rachel change, when we were in the audience, she was captivated. She never sat on my lap, never complained, never asked when it would be done, and when we got home, informed me she wants to keep dancing! Yay! I immediately signed Rachel and Gretchen up for a summer tumbling class at the dance studio. :) It was a long night of dance. I think Richard, Becky and Marshall were in the auditorium for three hours! But the girls were so grateful for their support. Richard bought two bouquets of flowers for the girls at Coscto that afternoon and here I am typing ten days later and they are still beautiful! Rachel's bouquet has three lilies in it and one still hasn't opened but the two that are opened are the strongest smelling lilies. I am loving it, their scent is seriously permeating our entire main floor. Richard and Marshall don't love it and push the vase away from them each morning when they sit down for breakfast!




May 20th: Saturday morning was filled with yard work and planting flowers. We all went to Marshall's last soccer game of the spring season. This has been an interesting soccer year for Marshall and the spring season was rough. I think we are all kind of happy to see it come to an end and Marshall has soccer tryouts this coming week. He is trying out with his current club, but for the first time ever will also try out for a different club. We will see what all that holds. Anyway, the girls were great sports about going to his game, which was nice since Marshall sat through three hours of dance the previous night! After the soccer game, I took Bridget to an end of the year party for student council. One of the boys on student council has a pool and his family was kind enough to host those kids for five plus hours that afternoon and evening. Bridget had the time of her life! They swam and swam, went down the slide, had dinner, roasted smores and she just had the most wonderful time. As a whole, this 6th grade class is full of really great kids and the twelve kids on student council are no exception. Bridget got home shortly after 9:00 pm, showered, went straight to bed and slept for 12 hours that night! While Bridget was gone, the rest of us went out to dinner at a new place in Woods Cross (it was pretty good!) and then had a relaxing evening at home, which is exactly what we all needed!
May 21st: This was the kind of day we all needed. Slow and relaxing! Richard did have bishopric meeting and ward council that morning and Rachel and I actually went to the sacrament meeting before ours, so our morning wasn't that relaxing, but still so wonderful. This year Rachel has had a dance teacher who graduated from high school last year and has been teaching at the studio this year. She got her mission call a few months ago and she actually lives in the neighboring ward. She invited Rachel to come hear her speak in sacrament meeting and Rachel really wanted to. I was happy to take her and it worked out perfectly. We walked over to the church just as the ward was finishing the sacrament. We snuck in the back and found two chairs. The chapel and gym were packed, we were in the last row just in front of the stage! The youth speaker was another girl who dances at Project Move and she referenced dance and Rachel was riveted. The next speaker was Rachel's teacher, Liv. She gave an amazing talk, and even though we were so far away and Rachel couldn't see her, I could tell she was listening to every single word. When Liv was done speaking, we went back out to the foyer in search of some comfier chairs until it was time for our ward's sacrament meeting. When the meeting ended, the bishop for Liv's ward asked that people who wanted to talk to Liv do so in the east foyer, which is exactly where we were. Within seconds of the closing prayer, Liv was out in the foyer and no one else was and Rachel got a good minute with her. She was able to give her two hugs and it was just the sweetest. This Liv has left a lasting impression on Rachel in more ways than one and I am definitely grateful for it.
May 22nd: Sadly, sweet Rachel woke up with the stomach flu on Monday. Oh I felt so bad for her. This was her third stomach flu since the beginning of the year-zero fun! I had a student council breakfast with Bridget at the school that morning at 8:00 am. I gave Gretchen the option of coming with us to the breakfast, or staying home, getting ready and then going over to the Atkinson's at 8:30 to get a ride to school. She opted to get a ride with the Atkinsons. I got her breakfast at 7:45 before I left with Bridget. I told her to get totally ready for school after she was done eating, and then I set an alarm for 8:27 and told her when the alarm went off to get her shoes and backpack on and walk to Charlie's. She did it all! My goodness, I was so proud of her! A growing up baby bear cub! Poor Rachel slept all morning on the couch, and I am glad nothing terrible happened with her while I was gone. I am so glad I was able to be at the school with Bridget for the breakfast. The student council advisor gave each child an award and shared the nicest words about each of them. As I was helping to clean up and leaving the school I was able to hear Bridget doing the announcements over the intercom. It was so fun to hear her darling voice. I spent the rest of the day planting flowers and helping Rachel. Poor girl. Thankfully, after school and lunch, Gretchen played outside with neighborhood friends the entire afternoon! Aside from the misery of having the stomach flu, Rachel also missed her first night of dance tryouts. The director of the studio was so completely understanding, and Rachel seemed okay with it until that night when she broke down in tears. Sweetest Dokie. I tried to put all her fears at ease and she was able to calm down and sleep well that night.
May 23rd: Tuesday was a wonderful day. Rachel woke up feeling 100% better and everyone else was healthy too...always a relief when stomach flu germs are lurking in your house! I didn't have anywhere to rush off to that morning until I volunteered for the last time in kindergarten. I have loved volunteering there once a week, and Gretchen has loved it too. I got so much done that day around the house and that felt wonderful. The kids all had good days at school and Bridget spent the better part of the school day swimming at the Farmington Pool. She went off the high dive four times and I am so proud of her. Thankfully Rachel felt well enough to go to the last night of dance tryouts that night. I took Rachel and Sara, got them checked in, gave them both hugs and then left. I was there to pick them up 2 1/2 hours later and they gave me the full rundown. The hard thing is that because Rachel and Sara are on one of the current teams going to nationals in July, they don't tell the nationals dancers what team they made for next year until after nationals is over. I totally agree with this, but the waiting is killing Rachel and me. July 10th seems SO far away. Bridget worked at the farm that night and thankfully Cambria's mom took them!
May 24th: Wednesday was another slower day...felt so wonderful! I ran errands while all the kids were gone that morning. The junior high passed out yearbooks that day. I gave Marshall some money and told him to sign yearbooks as long as he wanted and then walk to a restaurant with Johnny when they were done. It took some convincing, but he finally agreed. He and Johnny had fun hanging out at the school and then walked all the way to McDonalds! After eating a late lunch there, Johnny's mom picked them up and he hung out at Johnny's house for the rest of the day. The rest of us had a chill evening at home. The girls and I took Ziggy on a walk and then I stopped for a primary visit at someone's house and told the girls to finish walking Ziggy before heading home. Well, those sweet girls and dog got caught in one of our near daily thunder and rain storms and got home soaking wet! Rachel loved the whole experience, the others, not so much. :) A memory for sure!
May 25th: Marshall spent his school day at Boondocks and had a great time. The elementary school had field day and I had signed up to help with the morning session...face painting! My girls were highly skeptical of my decision to sign up for face painting, but I was all about sitting in a chair, under a canopy, and just working with one child at a time instead of masses of children! I am happy to report that face painting was a complete success and all my darling clients seemed absolutely elated when I showed them the finished product. I only asked one girl to change what she wanted...a fire breathing dragon...I knew I could not pull that one off! Rachel and Gretchen were in the morning session too. Gretchen did come to me to get her face painted, bless her little heart. I kissed her cheeks once, but I stopped myself from kissing her 20 more times! She made my day. And she also just asked for a heart, so that was nice and easy! Rachel didn't get her face painted at all, she claims zero confidence in my artistic abilities, but I was not the only mom doing face painting! I just saw her from a distance, but at least she waved to me! The rest of our Thursday was chill, and that was wonderful.
May 26th: Last day of school!!! Marshall actually didn't have school, but he was still so good and got up for scriptures with us and let me take his picture. Gretchen had kindergarten graduation that morning, so soon after I got the girls off to school, I was back down there. Graduation was darling. The kids sang a few songs and then they got called up one at a time to get their diplomas and shake the principal's hand. Gretchen gave a great hand shake. She has had a wonderful kindergarten year! After graduation, we went to lunch with our neighborhood kindergarten buddies, Charlie and Jackson, and their moms. Jackson's family moved on Friday and we are very sad to see them go! This little kindergarten three-some has been great and listening to their carpool conversations has been hilarious. We went to Chick-Fil-A for one last hurrah and we all had a great time together. On our way home from lunch, we picked Bridget up from school who had shed a few tears about the school year ending, bless her heart. But, she didn't cry long because it was time for the 6th grade party! The party was from 2:00-7:00 pm at Freedom Hills Park put on by some really wonderful moms. Bridget and her friends had a blast, despite a downpour and thunderstorm around 5:00. After the party, the girls decided they wanted to go to Target and shop. :) My neighbor was so kind to take them and those four girls had the best time wandering the aisles of Target. :) They came home with matching stuffed animals around 10:00 pm, what a day! Rachel went home with friends after school and went to go see their friend's seven 5-week old puppies. After that they jumped on the tramp with the sprinklers, played in the hot tub, did each other's nails, had pizza and just had the best time. Marshall had Johnny over here all afternoon and evening and finally at 5:00 I invited Naomi to come over and hang with Gretchen. It was quite the afternoon! By Friday afternoon I found myself exhausted! May has been so, so busy and I think just knowing that all the school craziness was over depleted all my adrenaline! Plus, it also seemed that I was hit with the realization that though Marshall will still be at the junior high this coming school year, he will be in 9th grade and officially in high school with his graduation just four short years away! What?! Also knowing that I will have two kids at the junior high and Gretchen moving into first grade makes me feel all the things...happy, sad, excited, old, the list goes on! I will soak up this summer for sure, and then I can be excited and sad all over again come August 17th.





We have had a different weekend, but it has been nice. Richard was on the road by 9:30 am Saturday morning with the three girls to head to Vernal. We finally found a time for Bridget, especially, to get out to Vernal to see the baby horse! Midnight is about six weeks old by now, but better late than never! The girls were all so excited. By all accounts, they have been having a wonderful time and I have loved all the pictures and videos. They come home this afternoon and I can't wait to hear all about it. It has just been Marshall and I here at home, and that has also been nice! I have spent hours, literally hours, cleaning up the loft and throwing away A LOT, boxing things up to take to DI, and boxing away some things we will save for grandkids. I found 11 socks up there from Rachel. :) Marshall has been kind to help me when I have asked him for it. He has spent a lot of time outside playing soccer, which has been good. He and I have also played games, watched The Office together, and Saturday night we went to Maddox for dinner. He has been fun to have around.



Here's to summer! We kick it off with a goat show on Friday for Bridget and Saturday we head up to Island Park! We are excited!
Love to each of you,
Richard, Jenny, Marshall, Bridget, Rachel, and Gretchen :)